Acharya Prashant: To break-up or not to break-up?

All your relationships are fundamentally a reflection of yourself.

You chose the other person.

If you remain the same, then you will find another person to have the same kind of relationship with.

You may keep changing shops, that does not change the relationship.

The first approach was, let the relationship be and change the person. The other approach is, let the person be and change the relationship. The first approach is a cowardly approach; the second approach is the approach of the Faithful, the valorous.

Our relationships are founded on our ‘pains’, and ‘inadequacies’, and ‘complexes.’

Our relationships start from our pain, and our pain is the pain of our being.

The way you are, you don’t have pain, you are ‘a pain.’

Don’t drop the other person, drop yourself.

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Author and Vedanta Teacher | acharyaprashant.org

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