How to deal with a short-tempered person?

The following is an excerpt from a samvaad (dialogue) session with Acharya Prashant.

Question (Q): How to deal with a short-tempered person?

Acharya Prashant (AP): Why are you only asking about how to deal with those who are very short-tempered? There are different people in the world, some are short-tempered and some are long-tempered (laughs).

People have different natures. If you’re aware and attentive, your response will always be right. If I’m filled with love then I’ll know how to deal with a lazy man and how to deal with a skillful person. If I’m intelligent, I’ll know how to deal with a person who is laughing and how to deal with a person who is crying. Both are opposites, but my intelligence can give solutions to both, right?

A person may be short-tempered or something else, but the right action can’t be planned beforehand. It can be decided at the very moment by being attentive. But the question is: why has the questioner talked about short-tempered persons? You didn’t ask, ‘Sir if I get to meet an intelligent person or a Buddha, how I should behave?’ You asked if you get to meet a short-tempered person, how should you deal with him. It is because when you meet a short-tempered person, it hurts your ego.