Fulfilment is when you are not thinking about fulfilment.
Real knowing is when you are not thinking in terms of knowledge.
Love is when you forget all about love.
Fearlessness is when you are not thinking that you are fearless.
If you are thinking that you are fearless, you are just using thought as a defence mechanism.
Whatever is Real is known by its absence in the psychic world.
If it does not come in thoughts then it is Real.
If the mind cannot imagine it, hold it, touch it, conceptualize it, then it is Real.