You were not born a human being to live painlessly. To be born is to be born in pain.
Bodhidharma was asked, ‘What is the greatest fortune?’ And he said, ‘The greatest fortune is not to be born at all.’
The greatest fortune is not to take birth at all because if you were born, then pain is inevitable. Pain is a necessary accompaniment of living a human life.
Don’t grudge! Don’t whimper! Don’t crib!
Your very expectation is misplaced. You will have pain. Go to the great athletes and they’ll tell you, ‘We play through pain’, one fellow is retiring and he has won multiple grand slams and he says, ‘Now, one thing is certain; I won’t wake up every morning in terrible pain!’
Who gave you the expectation that you were born to rejoice and celebrate and have a gala time?
Maybe the advertisers told you that!
The Buddhas have never told you that you were born to be felicitated or decorated or rewarded. That’s why India has since long said that when you’re punished, then you’re cursed to take birth! This session began with myths. Do you know how the myths go often?
So, there was the great angel and she made a mistake, so she was cursed to take birth! And you’ve dozens of stories like this. The great spirit was cursed to take birth because it made a mistake.
That’s what human birth is all about. You’re here to bear. You aren’t here to have a party.
Even if you've got a party, you will have a lot of pain.
No, I didn’t say suffer. I’ll come to that. The very concept that life can be painless is false. Pain is due and legitimate. You will have pain. Now, live through like a man.
What is suffering?
Suffering comes only when you start espousing the flawed concept that life must be pain-free. When you start feeding that concept, when you start nourishing and identifying with that concept that life must be painless, then you’ve suffering because now when pain comes, you’re shocked.
You say, ‘Life should’ve been painless and from where has this pain arrived? No, no, you go away, and it is unjust! I was born to dance and now something unfair is happening. See, pain…