On J. Krishnamurti: Man and woman are two ends of duality — inseparable opposites

The following is an excerpt from a samvaad (dialogue) session with Acharya Prashant.

A religious man must be both masculine and feminine

~ J. Krishnamurti

Acharya Prashant (AP): You could read it either way that — he must be both feminine and masculine, or he must be neither masculine nor feminine. You know what masculinity stands for in popular parlance, as a psychological state, as a physical state. You know what masculinity stands for, and you also know what femininity stands for. Whenever you are associated with one of the two, that is your hell.

To be associated with both masculinity and femininity is to be able to see both together, and hence to be able to see that both are just one. That both sustain each other. That fact is, none of them can stand in isolation.

A woman is not always a woman. A woman becomes a woman, the moment she thinks of a man. A woman becomes a woman when a man crosses her. Otherwise, she is not a woman. She is just consciousness, free of identity. A man too is simply his attentiveness. But the moment a woman crosses him, he becomes a man. Are you getting it?