The Ego Uses Both Sex And Meditation As An Escape

Acharya Prashant
6 min readSep 22, 2019

Question: Krishnamurti says that one craves sex, because in that, one finds no ‘me’, ego, and hence no conflict. And one uses it as an escape. Why does one not use, meditation too, as an escape? Is it because that one lacks understanding, energy, or is it because that the outside influences and inherent tendencies, acquired and hence biological, are too strong?

“Love is a state in which there is no ‘me’;
love is a state in which there is no condemnation, no saying that sex is right or wrong, that this good and something else is bad. Love is none of these contradictory things. Contradiction does not exist in love.” ~J.Krishnamurti

Does this call for an inner strength stronger than the outer influences? How would one describe this inner strength in words, if it exists?

Acharya Prashant Ji: The basis of the question is, that one probably does not use meditation as an escape. But one does use meditation as an escape. One uses everything, as an escape.

One uses meditation, in precisely the same way, as one uses sex, or any other means of getting away.

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