The fallacy of expression of love

The following is an excerpt from a samvaad (dialogue) session with Acharya Prashant.

Acharya Prashant (AP): In matters of Love and all these things, you want the other person to be ‘nice’.

We are such idiots, we want the other person to be ‘nice.’

And if the other person is not nice, we feel, there is no Love.