Forget that Love has to do anything with anybody outside. Please forget that. Forget about loving somebody. Turn inwards, look within, cure yourself and then you don’t have to worry about Love.
Even without knowing, you will become loving. You won’t even know that this is Love, because as per our standard definitions of Love, Love is something totally different.
So even without knowing, you would have already become Love. And in strange ways you would be reaching out to others. That’s the mysticism of Love. You won’t even know how you are benefiting the other. Of course, that would not be as per the general imagination, the general norms. You won’t be talking sweet necessarily. And your behaviour towards everybody will not be the same because Love is not something that can be typecast.
The same Sun, when it shines upon the sand, it dries the sand and when it shines upon the ice, it melts ice. In one case, the water has been removed and in other case, water has appeared.
So your behaviour towards everybody will be different. The same Sun has different effects on different people. You cannot just declare a particular type of behaviour to be loving behaviour.
And you don’t have to bother whether your behaviour is loving or not. You inner health is so good that whatever would be happening would be good. You are so full that you can only give. You do not intend to harm anybody because you clearly see that ultimate all around, so whom to harm?