Wasting life on an unworthy person?

If you find that you are needlessly attracted towards an unworthy person, then it is not that so-called mean person you need to distance yourself from, rather you need to investigate what is it within you that craves for meanness.

If you say you have been in a relationship with some person for eight years, and if the person is really mean, then what were you doing with him for so long?

Only meanness gets attracted to meanness. You say you were very loyal to that person etc. What was so great about that person that you offered your loyalty to him?

As far as I understand life a little, one’s loyalty must be reserved for the highest one can come across, right? Or is one’s loyalty a cheap thing, an article on sale that you can offer it to just about any random, average, mean person?

I want to ask this question to all who either demand or profess loyalty from another person or towards another person. Those who have known life have taught as fundamental wisdom that only truth is worth being committed to.

How do you afford being committed to some person? Does that person really represent the truth to you, is he the epitome?

But with great moral righteousness, we come forward and say, look at me: since the last twenty-five years I have been unexceptionally…