When a person changes, his relationships too must change

Acharya Prashant
4 min readJun 2, 2020

Following is an excerpt from a samvaad (dialogue) session with Acharya Prashant.

Listener: How to deal with society and the conditioning it brings along with it?

Acharya Prashant: You talk a lot about society, but ultimately our visa expires and we have to return to the same society. What do we do? Do we go to some forest? Do we go to Mars? What do we do? What do you mean by society? If you look at the contact list of your phone, is that list the same as the list in her phone (signaling towards another lady). How many numbers are there in your phone directory? How many? How many?

(Silence)

How many?

This is not a mystical question please. (Everyone laughs)

How many contacts?

Listener 1: Minimum 200.

And how many people are there in the world? 8 Billion.

What is society? The minuscule number of people that you gather around yourself. You have gathered a very small number of people around yourself and you call it ‘the society’. An infinite number of societies exist. You are the center of the society that you gather around yourself. When you change, your contact list also changes.

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