Why do you want to get married?
Companionship is wonderful.
Be with one person, ten persons, anybody who helps your mind be centered. Being with such a person, or a group of persons, is wonderful.
If marriage is another name for beautiful companionship, wonderful. But what matters is not the social institution of marriage, but the fact that you are with someone.
When you are with someone, the presence of that someone, will necessarily have an effect on you, and vice-versa.
You must know the effect that the other’s presence have upon you.
If someone’s effect has a becalming effect on your mind, soothing effect on your mind, illuminating effect on your mind, liberating effect on your mind, go ahead and boldly be with that person or persons, as much as you want to.
But be with them, only as long as their effect on you is liberating. And be with them only as long as you do not become dependent on them, neither they become dependent on you.
It has to be a mutually healthy relationship, not a relationship in which you enter because of sexuality, or loneliness, or social pressure.
You already have enough troubles, right?
You don’t want to invite another trouble into your house, into your bedroom. Do you? But yes, if someone…
