Without an inner firmness, does one exist?

Questioner: I see a luxury car in front of me, and there is greed arising out of me. I see a woman who is conventionally considered to be pretty, and there is lust arising out of me. Each of these emotions that are coming out is in relation to the objects in front of me.

So, my understanding of this and going more and more in-depth about this is how it is going to work? And do I have to…